Like many graduating high school seniors, I had little knowledge
of what awaited me as I took my first steps from my parents' home.
I was fortunate enough to have earned an appointment to the US Naval
Academy in Annapolis, Md. Although at times the challenges were very
difficult, ultimately after four years, I graduated in 1986 with a
Bachelors of Science in Systems Engineering. The education and leadership
training I received I consider second to none. By far, however the
best thing that happened during this time was meeting the woman who
ultimately became my wife.
Like many junior officers, my first few years were filled
with more time at sea than at home. After several years, I found
myself in the engineering department onboard the aircraft carrier
USS Saratoga during the Persian Gulf War. I was awarded the Navy
Achievement Medal for my personal service during this conflict.
I believe, however, it was then that I realized I wanted to devote
more time to my family.
Upon departing the Navy, I joined a small executive recruiting
firm and realized the financial reward for success in small business.
During this time I attended a seminar sponsored by our church on
how to become a stronger father. I do not believe I was a bad father,
but after the seminar, I had a much greater focus on the purpose
of my life.
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Billy Graham came to Duval County 2-5 Nov. 2000. I
attended one of the evening events with my two oldest sons
On 7 November my wife and I cast our votes like millions
of individuals across the nation. By 9 November I had a crystal
clear understanding of the presidential election. I knew exactly
what I was being called to do. I approached my employer and
explained the situation and was granted some afternoons away
from the office to concentrate on the required efforts. After
two weeks of networking, I was able to identify and retain
legal counsel.
I've
never been active in either political or social issues beyond
minor contributions, occasional silent protest, and voting.
Much like the uncertainty that accompanied me when I graduated
from high school, I can only welcome the challenges that are
before me.
I believe I have a responsibility to my children to
pass on to them the best society that I can. Often I ask myself
why there are so many broken families, so many fatherless
children, and so many juvenile crimes.  I
become angry when I cannot watch basic television programs
with my children due to objectionable advertising or programming
content. Objectionable magazine covers and destructive songs
on the radio are wrongs we have learned to accept. Why aren't
so many students receiving a solid education in school? Why
are so many teens pregnant?
I can't promise my children that I can fix the world.
I have drawn my line in the sand. I owe it to my children
to try and correct the things I can.
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